Aunt Jennie's children

A chart of Aunt Jennies children, grand children and great grandchildren shows some interesting patterns. There is a strong tendency for alcoholism. Of her children, only one of her sons was an alcoholic, and ruined his life because of it. But all of her grandchildren had a problem with drinking. Was it genetic, or was it a sign of the times? They came of age during Prohibition when drinking was considered sophisticated. The great grandchildren, looking at the poor example of their parents, and coming of age in the '60s when wine was more fashionable than whiskey, avoided the curse of hard liquor.

Grace Captola Rickert - 1877-1946
Grace was a good woman, and plain - plain of face and fashion, plain spoken, unpretentious, unambitious. Her home, her husband, her family, her church; these were the important things in her life.
Born in Brandon, raised in Laconia, and worked in the stocking mill; it was ther that she met Bert Stevens. After they married, she remained at home.
Two children were born:
  1. Elsie, born 1899
  2. Murriel, born 1901, died 1901
    The younger, Murriel, died in her first year and is buried at Union cemetery in Laconia, along side her uncle Harlow and grandfather Philo Rickert.

    All of their married life Bert and Grace lived in the same house at 14 Oak Street, Laconia. The house was heated by a huge cast-iron wood burning stove in the kitchen, with vents in the ceiling to heat the upper floor, augmented by a kerosine by a kerkosine heater in the front of the house. The combination of the wood smoke and the kerosine gave the house a characteristic odor. The wood stove burned culls from a wood-turning factory; spindles and wheels and marvellous shapes, a treasure trove for an imaginative child.



    Their daughter Elsie was the first in the family to go off to college, to the University of New Hampshire, on a Bishop's scholarship. She studied art and education, cut her hair in a bob and wore her galoshes open. She was a thoroughly modern Elsie! After graduation, she accepted a position of art teacher in Glocester, MA. Summer vacations she returned to Lake Dunmore where she worked in Aunt Jennie's Tea House. One summer she met a brash young man, counsellor at a nearby summer camp. His name was Lester Rounds. The following summer they married.
    He was a Columbia graduate, a reporter for the Brooklyn Eagle. Later he went into PR work and then advertising. They lived at first in New York City, and their babies - Priscilla and 2 years later, Nancy - were born there.

    In 1940 they moved to Westport Connecticut. Elsie had all she had ever imagined as a girl: a big house, a successful husband, 2 beautiful children, a station wagon and an Irish Setter. How could she have been discontented?

Beatrice Lynn Rickert - 1879 - 1959

Bessie was red haired, full of spunk and ginger. She was only 16 when she ran away with the circus and married the star of the show, the man on the flying trapeze, Hayes Werntz. He trained her, and she became part of the act. They were billed as "The Flying Werntzes"
Elsie occasionally visited her aunt and uncle when the circus came through Laconia. As aerialists, the Werntzes ate at the head table, but the child Elsie prefered sitting with the clowns.
Bessie and Hayes travelled with the circus for years, later settling in Akron Ohio, where Hayes had a house-painting business.
Hayes and Bessie had two children:

  1. Norma - married Ward Carlyn, 2 children.
  2. Meade - married Marguerite, 1 child.

They built a summer cabin on Lake Dunmore in Vermont. Three rooms with a porch across the front with a kitchen lean-to, and an out-house out back. It had electricity but water was hauled from the creek at the bottom of the hill.

This cabin, called "Troublesover" became a mecca for her family, her daughter and grand daughters, her niece and grand nieces.

Her son Meade was unlucky in love and in life. His first wife, Marguerite, died soon after their daughter, Dolores, was born, and his second wife, Fern, was not interested in raising the girl. Thus, from the time Dolores was 2, Bessie raised her grand daughter.

Earl Dunmore Rickert - 1883 - 1930

Earl lost his wife, his child, his chance for a good life to alcohol. He lived the life of a wandering alcoholic, working sometimes in the merchant marine, sometimes as a cook, sometimes as a factory hand. His family would see him briefly and then he'd be gone again.
Earl married, briefly, but was divorced due to his drinking and inability to hold a steady job. He staggered in front of a car in New York city, and was hit; came home to his mother's where he died on Jan. 4, 1930.

Etta Howe was a beautiful woman, and independent. She left home when she was 16 years old, went to Rutland to work as a wiatress. She always worked, and worked hard, and did the best she could with what she had.
Etta and Earl knew each other only a short time before the marriage which took place in 1911. Later that spring Etta had a chance to become one of the "Harvey Girls" - an elite group of waitresses who worked in a chain of restaurants, one of which was being established in Arizona to celebrate the entry of Arizona into the Union in 1911. Earl was unemployed at the time, and so Etta took the job and went to Arizona.
Etta didn't like the weather in Arizona and after a few months returned to Akron where Earl was working in the rubber factory. She was employed in Akron as a waitress and their daughter Lois was born there.
Earl had started to drink heavily and soon after Lois was born Etta left Earl and returned to Brandon by train. Earl followed her to Brandon and they lived together for about 6 months and then Etta left Earl because of his drinking. She moved to Montpelier and lived for a short time with a family by the name of Gallagher.
When she was offered a job at the Old Barre Hotel, in Barre -- where she continued to work until she retired in 1950 -- she left Lois with the Gallaghers, who cared for the child for a year or so and then placed her with a family by the name of Gebo.
However, when Lois was 12 the Gebos had her baptized into the Catholic faith under the name of Margaret Eloise Gebo. Etta had no objections to the baptism but was furious with the Gebos for giving Lois the wrong name. She made her identity known to Lois and brought her daughter into the Rickert family. Thus Louis came to know her grandmother, her cousins, aunts and uncles from her father's side.
Etta was 78 years old when she died in 1962.

Mrs. Jennie Rickert
I am indusing myself as your grandchild Loise. Dear Grandmama I take the greatest pleasure writing to you - I am well, so is Mama, hope you are the same. I go to school every day and to church on Sunday. I am in the second reader this is my second year in school. I still takeing music lessons. I inclose one of my birthday pictures. I will closed my letter with a big kiss. Love to you grandmama from your grandchild. Please answer me.
Loise Rickert

Lois was a beauty like her mother. She won several beauty contests but didn't consider a career. She married young, to a promising attorney, Reginald Abare, and settled in Barre. Their son, Tom, was born in 1936. When Tom was in school, Lois took a job in the Vermont Motor Vehicle Dept.
Some years later, Lois and Reggie separated. Louis went to New York City, where she worked for Lord & Taylor and had an apartment in Brooklyn. Lois joined AA in New York and remained sober for over 8 years. She died of heart failure at the age of 52.

Paul Thayer Rickert -- 1890 - 1949
It isn't easy to make a good living in Vermont. Of all of Jennie's children, Paul was the most anxious to stay close to his mother. He tried several different occupations (book salesman, cook) before he succeeded with the Square Dance Pavillion.
The Pavillion was built on a piece of land next to Lake Dunmore (and just down the road from Aunt Jennie's Tea Room) called "Cove Point". With his friend and neighbor Pinky Johnson as caller, they ran dances every weekend throughout the summer and Cove Point became a popular attraction to the summer crowd.
Paul's first marriage ended in divorce and the following year he married Margaret Foyles, a woman 18 years his junior and a contemporary of his nieces. As newly marrieds, and with the Square Dance Pavillion as a draw for family and friends, there were some happy hears together.
Paul bought the farmhouse back from Frank Durant who had bought the farm from Harvey Rickert, and began to remodel and restore it.
His son, Paul Thayer Rickert Jr. was born in 1933. As a young man, Paul jr. went into the Marines. In an incident echoing that of his ancestor, Bigelow Dutton, Paul fell off the back of a truck and injured his back. He was never able to work again, and has lived in a series of Veteran's hospitals ever since.
Paul Sr. died suddently, of a bad heart, and Margaret, who had no mind for money, quickly lost all that Paul had gained. Pinky Johnson took over Cover Point. Eventually the dance pavillion burned down and today Cove Point is a trailer park.
Margaret sold the farm to strangers and moved into a cabin that had been her mother's with her brother Johnny, who was ill. Like Troublesover, the cabin had no water, only what Margaret could lug from a tap in a neighbor's barn. As she grew older, it became more and more difficult for Margaret to live in this small cabin and after Johnny's death in 1988, she moved into a nursing home in Rutland.